Wednesday, 6 February 2013

#WickedWednesday: So I asked SilverHubby about #Follow ...

And this is what he said ...


In the military, we had a way of describing a particularly inept trainee:

"Can't lead.  Won't follow.  Refuses to get out of the way."

Having shared that only tangentially relevant snippet with you, I'll get to the point (unusual for me - I usually ramble).

Squishiness Alert: I wasn't sure where I was going with this when I started.  It has  turned into something of a squish-fest.  Walk away now and save yourself, dear loyal reader, if your gag reflex is twitching.  Anyway, it is almost Valentines.  :)

Follow me and I promise you that I ...

  • ... will continue my contribution to us having the best sex either of us have ever experienced.
  • ... will love you for who and what you are - I have no desire to change you.
  • ... will lead you to places we both want to go, emotionally, physically and geographically.
  • ... will ensure that we will discuss everything, I (will usually) decide.
  • ... will nurture you.  All of you.  Including, in fact most especially, your inner slut.
  • ... will do everything I can for you, for us.
  • ... will tell you if I've screwed up, not try and hide it.
  • ... will tell you if I think you've screwed up, and help you fix it.
  • ... will always be there to hold your hand, be a shoulder to cry on, be a (metaphorical) punchbag for you to shout at the world when you need to.
  • ... will cherish you always.
  • ... will do all that I can to help you with achieving inner peace.  Including putting your physical collar around your neck to remind you of, well, everything we are to each other.
  • ... will give you a reality check when it's needed - as you will me.
  • ... will always have your/our best interests at heart.
  • ... will never make you doubt my love for you.
  • ... we always put Us, and what we are together, first.
  • ... will tell you "I love you." every day (err ... we both say it multiple times a day already).
  • ... will not be even slightly offended when your promised response tomorrow is nowhere near as romantic - because we both know who the SoftCuddlyRomanticDom in this relationship is. :)
  • ... will not remind you that I brought you a large bunch of assorted coloured tulips today when I read your response.
  • ... will always say "and I love you" (not "but I love you")
Would I follow you?  Yes.  Even into hell (remember What Dreams May Come?).



Previous posts from So I asked SilverHubby here


8 comments:

  1. Now that's a wonderful basis for a lasting relationship right there :)

    ~Kazi xxx

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  2. Wow... now that is a fabulous list. I love how the D/s nature of your relationship is evident and yet you show just how that is all about nurturing one another. Bravo!

    Mollyxxx

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  3. I don't know about squishy but thought rather it seemed genuine and loving.

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  4. There is so much love radiating from this post. It's wonderful!

    Rebel xox

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  5. Great list. I loved "Including, in fact most especially, your inner slut." :)

    ~ Beck

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  6. That made my heart swell. Beautiful.
    Rachel x

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  7. Perfect Valentine's post. Also loved the reference to What Dreams May Come that was a truly inspiring movie.

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  8. Fabulous...... that is all

    ~Mia~ xx

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