I gotta go with Natalie Cole's version of "A Song for You"
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Tuesday, 27 March 2012
TMI Tuesday: A Song for You
UK Giveaway Roundup: Week of March 26, 2012
Here are all the giveaways I know about that, to the best of my knowledge, are open to UK residents. This post will be updated throughout the week as I learn of more, and a new post put up next Monday.
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
- Win a $25 Eden Gift Card from Steve and Roxy - Contest ends Mar 29
- Win a Basics Cock Ring from Mrs JoJo's - Contest ends Mar 29
- Win a share of £200 worth of sex toys from Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman - Contest ends Mar 31
- Win a gift basket of Dona by JO products from Eden Cafe - Contest ends Apr 1
- Win one of 5 Tenga 3D masturbators from Tenga -Contest ends Apr 2
- Win a Trojan Vibrator pack from True Pleasures - Contest ends Apr 7
- Win a $50 Eden Gift Card from Fun with Sammi - Contest ends Apr 13
- Win a Tantus T-Rex dildo from Of Sex and Love - Contest ends Apr 15
- Win a Kindle and £100 to spend at Lovehoney - Contest ends Apr 30
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
Friday, 23 March 2012
Pleasurists 172
Courtesy of Karen Blue*
Did you miss Pleasurists 171? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists 173? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday March 25th @ 11:59pm Pacific.
*Pleasurists recently started accepting photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here.
Want a shiny new toy? All you’ve got to do is enter.
- Win a LELO Tor 2 Cockring Deadline: March 24th.
- LELO Siri Giveaway Deadline: March 26th.
- Win a $25 EdenFantasys Gift Card Deadline: March 29th.
- $25 The Intimacy Book Gift Card Giveaway Deadline: March 31st.
- Spring Sensual Secrets – Competition Deadline: April 5th @ Midnight GMT.
- Win A Papaya Candy Stick or Honi Vibe! Deadline: April 5th.
- Enter to Win a Trojan Vibrations Pleasure Pack Deadline: April 8th.
Scarlet Lotus
On to the reviews:
Thursday, 22 March 2012
Pleasurists 171
Courtesy of Dangerous Lilly
Did you miss Pleasurists 170? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists 173? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday March 25th @ 11:59pm Pacific.
*Pleasurists recently started accepting photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here.
Want a shiny new toy? All you’ve got to do is enter.
- Win a custom dildo — with anything you want inside it! Deadline: March 22nd @ 11:59pm Eastern.
- Rene Rofe Scandalous Teddy Black Lg Giveaway Deadline: March 23rd.
- Springtime Sex Toy Giveaway Deadline: March 23rd.
- Win a LELO Tor 2 Cockring Deadline: March 24th.
- LELO Siri Giveaway Deadline: March 26th.
- Win a $25 EdenFantasys Gift Card Deadline: March 29th.
- $25 The Intimacy Book Gift Card Giveaway Deadline: March 31st.
Scarlet Lotus
On to the reviews:
Review: Dreamgirl Spanish Fly Open Crotch Panty (L)
Summary:
I squeezed my ample fundament into these, because I couldn't resist the look. I really could do with a 1X size. They're really way too snug on me, but I love them anyway. I just wish they came in plus sizes.
Pros:
So sexy!
Makes my ass look great
Cons:
No plus sizes
No colour options
What it is … how to wear it
This is a sexy crotchless panty with a strappy back that accents the ass and shows it off to excellent advantage.
Packaging
The packaging is a simple cardboard sleeve with a photo of the model on the front and sizing information on the back.
Material & Care
90% polyester
10% spandex/elastane
Hand wash cold, line dry
Design
I love the design of these knickers. The band, centre front opening, and back straps are red elastic. The front is two black mesh panels to the right and left of centre, with two black satin bows where they meet in the middle. The leg openings are black and red lace.
The back is where it really shines though. From the centre back of the band, four more red straps go out at angles to meet the leg openings, making a lovely ass framing style. There's another black satin bow where all the straps meet.
Along the crotch opening, there is only two pieces of the leg lace, making access easy, without friction or irritation to either partner.
Sizing & Fit
The packaging claims that this fits 140-160 lbs, 65-75 kg. I'm 150 lbs, and this baaaaaarely fits. The front pulls open, the leg lace is extremely snug, and all the elastic in it is stretched to its maximum. However, the Dreamgirl sizing chart on Eden says that their large size is for hip measurements 38-40".
My measurements:
5'3" height
150 lbs weight
40B cups
41" bust
38" waist
44" hips
For this piece, I recommend going by the hip measurement to choose your size.
Specific Measurements (unstretched)
hip/waist circumference: 29 1/2"
leg circumference: 22"
crotch length, centre front to centre back: 17 1/2"
front panel centre front length: 4"
front panel side length: 2 1/2"
front panel width: 15"
lace width: 1 1/4" at widest point
If you would like any additional measurements, please let me know and I will try to provide them.
Quality, Comfort and Wearability
This is an inexpensive panty and cannot be said to be made from high quality material. However, I found no flaws in its construction. I wouldn't wear them as an everyday panty, but I'd be daring enough to wear them on a date - if they actually fit me. If they did, I imagine they'd be perfectly comfortable. As it is, I only slip them on at home, when I want to surprise the boyfriend.
Final Thoughts and Rating
I can't fault Dreamgirl for my ass not fitting into a panty that is too small, but I do fault them for not making this available in a plus size. If I could buy it in my size, this would be a five star product. As it is, I can only give them 4 stars.
I squeezed my ample fundament into these, because I couldn't resist the look. I really could do with a 1X size. They're really way too snug on me, but I love them anyway. I just wish they came in plus sizes.
Pros:
So sexy!
Makes my ass look great
Cons:
No plus sizes
No colour options
What it is … how to wear it
This is a sexy crotchless panty with a strappy back that accents the ass and shows it off to excellent advantage.
Packaging
The packaging is a simple cardboard sleeve with a photo of the model on the front and sizing information on the back.
Material & Care
90% polyester
10% spandex/elastane
Hand wash cold, line dry
Design
I love the design of these knickers. The band, centre front opening, and back straps are red elastic. The front is two black mesh panels to the right and left of centre, with two black satin bows where they meet in the middle. The leg openings are black and red lace.
The back is where it really shines though. From the centre back of the band, four more red straps go out at angles to meet the leg openings, making a lovely ass framing style. There's another black satin bow where all the straps meet.
Along the crotch opening, there is only two pieces of the leg lace, making access easy, without friction or irritation to either partner.
Sizing & Fit
The packaging claims that this fits 140-160 lbs, 65-75 kg. I'm 150 lbs, and this baaaaaarely fits. The front pulls open, the leg lace is extremely snug, and all the elastic in it is stretched to its maximum. However, the Dreamgirl sizing chart on Eden says that their large size is for hip measurements 38-40".
My measurements:
5'3" height
150 lbs weight
40B cups
41" bust
38" waist
44" hips
For this piece, I recommend going by the hip measurement to choose your size.
Specific Measurements (unstretched)
hip/waist circumference: 29 1/2"
leg circumference: 22"
crotch length, centre front to centre back: 17 1/2"
front panel centre front length: 4"
front panel side length: 2 1/2"
front panel width: 15"
lace width: 1 1/4" at widest point
If you would like any additional measurements, please let me know and I will try to provide them.
Quality, Comfort and Wearability
This is an inexpensive panty and cannot be said to be made from high quality material. However, I found no flaws in its construction. I wouldn't wear them as an everyday panty, but I'd be daring enough to wear them on a date - if they actually fit me. If they did, I imagine they'd be perfectly comfortable. As it is, I only slip them on at home, when I want to surprise the boyfriend.
Final Thoughts and Rating
I can't fault Dreamgirl for my ass not fitting into a panty that is too small, but I do fault them for not making this available in a plus size. If I could buy it in my size, this would be a five star product. As it is, I can only give them 4 stars.
Verdict: 4 out of 5 stars
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Wednesday, 21 March 2012
Review: RodeoH harness
Summary:
The RodeoH is a comfortable, stylish, and easy to wear harness shaped like a pair of briefs. You can wear it under your clothes, with or without a packing dildo, or pull it on spur of the moment when you decide you want to be wearing a dick. The cons that it has all stem from it not being an actual harness. It's something new in the field of dildo-wearing-devices, and it performs beautifully.
Pros:
Comfortable
Stylish
Easy to use
Can wear under clothing
Could be used for packing
Cons:
Dildo size is limited
Vulva and anus of the wearer are covered
Can't adjust size
Click here to read the full review
The RodeoH is a comfortable, stylish, and easy to wear harness shaped like a pair of briefs. You can wear it under your clothes, with or without a packing dildo, or pull it on spur of the moment when you decide you want to be wearing a dick. The cons that it has all stem from it not being an actual harness. It's something new in the field of dildo-wearing-devices, and it performs beautifully.
Pros:
Comfortable
Stylish
Easy to use
Can wear under clothing
Could be used for packing
Cons:
Dildo size is limited
Vulva and anus of the wearer are covered
Can't adjust size
Click here to read the full review
Verdict: 5 out of 5 stars
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Review: Goodfella dildo by Vixen Creations
Summary:
When I'm ready for gender-fuck harness play, this is the cock I wear that I think of as mine. I love to play with it, to jerk myself off, to see my boyfriend sucking it off, and I really love pegging him with it. The balls give that extra verisimilitude that my previous harness dildo lacked, and because they are pressed against my clit during vigorous activity, I get extra stimulation as well. It doesn't feel like a toy. It feels like my missing dick finally turned up. I love it.
Pros:
3D balls
Moderately sizedDual density silicone
Cons:
Might be too small for some
Verdict: 5 out of 5 stars
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Review: Mr Right Packing Strap (42")
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Summary:
I'm bedroom genderqueer, not trans, so take my experience with a grain of salt. This is a convenient and easy strap for displaying a packer dildo in the bedroom to give an almost-naked look. As a full-time packer strap, I can't recommend it. Anything worn at the crotch should be washable. Also, it doesn't feel to me like it would stay in place well enough for full-time use. If you want this for the bedroom, I highly recommend it. For full time packing, look elsewhere.
Pros:
Perfect fit for Mr Right
Easy to wear
Almost-nude look
Cons:
Doesn't hold Mr Limpy very well
The crotch is a silly place for leather
Not sturdy
Click here to read the full review.
Verdict: 4 out of 5 stars
Review: Mr Right Packing Dildo
Summary:
I only pack in the bedroom, but I still love to play gender games with my bi boyfriend. We both think I look hot wearing nothing but Mr Right on its packing strap. I love to play out all the things he'll do to make me hard before I switch out harnesses and cocks to simulate getting an erection. Gender fuck is mostly in the head, but having great props like Mr Right makes it even hotter.
Pros:
Beautiful detail
Realistic feel
Lopsided balls
Silicone
It's not pink!
Cons:
Somewhat large for everyday packing
Would prefer an uncircumcised version
Click here for the full review
I only pack in the bedroom, but I still love to play gender games with my bi boyfriend. We both think I look hot wearing nothing but Mr Right on its packing strap. I love to play out all the things he'll do to make me hard before I switch out harnesses and cocks to simulate getting an erection. Gender fuck is mostly in the head, but having great props like Mr Right makes it even hotter.
Pros:
Beautiful detail
Realistic feel
Lopsided balls
Silicone
It's not pink!
Cons:
Somewhat large for everyday packing
Would prefer an uncircumcised version
Click here for the full review
Verdict: 5 out of 5 stars
Tuesday, 20 March 2012
TMI Tuesday: 31 Sexual Favours
This TMI Tuesday let’s play our own 31 Sexual Favors. List 31 unique and exciting sexual activities or services you’d put on your very own tokens that are guaranteed to make you the favorite flavor of the week.
Sexual favours I'd love to receive from my bf:
- Anal sex with me receiving
- Anal sex with you receiving
- Go out to tea with both of us wearing butt plugs (No, I'm not obsessed with anal sex... what gives you that idea?)
- Fuck your Fleshlight while I watch
- 5 swats with a wooden paddle
- Come on my tits
- Give me a massage
- Have my strap-on lying out on the bed waiting for me when I get home, help me put it on, and then suck my cock.
- Hand me a toy while you're driving us somewhere so I can play with myself in the passenger seat.
- 10 swats with a leather belt
- Wash my hair
- A dozen yellow roses
- Clone a willy!
- Clone a pussy!
- 15 swats with your hand
- Read me a story from Literotica
- Surprise me with some lingerie you're dying to see me in
- Long, slow, lazy lovemaking
- Brush my hair
- No more swats - I'm a wimp! Rub some lotion into my bottom instead.
- Take me out for a pedicure
- Read Shakespeare's sonnets to me
- Kiss my fingers
- Surprise me with a new toy
- Fuck me with a cold glass dildo on a sticky hot summer day
- Bake me a cake
- Trim my pubes for me
- Buy me a Zatchels handbag (Yes, this is sexy. Trust me!)
- Read me poetry by Walt Whitman
- Bend me over the sofa and take me hard from behind
- Braid my hair
Monday, 19 March 2012
UK Giveaway Roundup: Week of 19 March 2012
Here are all the giveaways I know about that, to the best of my knowledge, are open to UK residents. This post will be updated throughout the week as I learn of more, and a new post put up next Monday.
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
- Win a Custom Jollet or Jollie Dildo from Hey Epiphora - Contest ends Mar 22
- Win a Springtime Sex Toy bundle from Nymphomaniac Ness - Contest ends Mar 22
- Win a Lelo Tor II Cockring from Screaming Violet - Contest ends Mar 24
- Win a Trojan Midnight vibrator from EdenCafe - Contest ends Mar 25
- Win a $25 Eden Gift Card from Steve and Roxy - Contest ends Mar 29
- Win a share of £200 worth of sex toys from Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman - Contest ends Mar 31
- Win one of 5 Tenga 3D masturbators from Tenga -Contest ends Apr 2
- Win a Trojan Vibrator pack from True Pleasures - Contest ends Apr 7
- Win a Tantus T-Rex dildo from Of Sex and Love - Contest ends Apr 15
- Win a Kindle and £100 to spend at Lovehoney - Contest ends Apr 30
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
Friday, 16 March 2012
e[lust] #34
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #35 ? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! Note: Wondering why there is no Top 3 this edition? Read the latest Editor's Note to find out why, and what you can do to help prevent this from happening in the future.
~ Featured Posts (Picked by Lilly) ~
The Ultrasound and the Fury- I cried softly and my partner moved closer to the table so I could lay my cheek against him for comfort and support. Then they brandished a wand and explained they needed to take pictures inside of me. And told him to get out.
Vagina in the Wild - Adventures in Pantslessness - They are self-cleaning and self-lubricating. They are a wonderfully well designed body part that speaks of feminine power and beauty. They leave wet spots on the couch.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
The Ultimate Guide to Silicone Sex Toys – With Metis Black of Tantus, Inc. - I picked the brain of Metis Black, the fabulous woman behind Tantus Inc, makers of some very awesome silicone sex toys. Get your sex geek on and find out some myths and facts about silicone sex toys!
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
~ Featured Posts (Picked by Lilly) ~
The Ultrasound and the Fury- I cried softly and my partner moved closer to the table so I could lay my cheek against him for comfort and support. Then they brandished a wand and explained they needed to take pictures inside of me. And told him to get out.
Vagina in the Wild - Adventures in Pantslessness - They are self-cleaning and self-lubricating. They are a wonderfully well designed body part that speaks of feminine power and beauty. They leave wet spots on the couch.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
The Ultimate Guide to Silicone Sex Toys – With Metis Black of Tantus, Inc. - I picked the brain of Metis Black, the fabulous woman behind Tantus Inc, makers of some very awesome silicone sex toys. Get your sex geek on and find out some myths and facts about silicone sex toys!
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Monday, 12 March 2012
UK Giveaway Roundup: Week of March 12, 2012
Here are all the giveaways I know about that, to the best of my knowledge, are open to UK residents. This post will be updated throughout the week as I learn of more, and a new post put up next Monday.
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
- Win a red leather spanking paddle at Spanking.co.uk - Contest ends Mar 18
- Win Coquette Lingerie from EdenCafe - Contest ends Mar 18
- Win a Custom Jollet or Jollie Dildo from Hey Epiphora - Contest ends Mar 22
- Win a Springtime Sex Toy bundle from Nymphomaniac Ness - Contest ends Mar 22
- Win a Lelo Tor II Cockring from Screaming Violet - Contest ends Mar 24
- Win a $25 Eden Gift Card from Steve and Roxy - Contest ends Mar 29
- Win a share of £200 worth of sex toys from Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman - Contest ends Mar 31
- Win a Tantus T-Rex dildo from Of Sex and Love - Contest ends Apr 15
- Win a Kindle and £100 to spend at Lovehoney - Contest ends Apr 30
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
Review: Trinity by Evolved
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After I received Trinity and saw its girth, I decided to make it a dedicated hands-free vaginal vibe rather than using it anally. I like to wear it during harness play with my boyfriend to add a little fun. Unfortunately, the vibrations are too buzzy and diffuse to give me an orgasm, and the toy is much louder than it should be for its power level.
Pros:
Waterproof
Easy to control
Hands-free use
Cons:
Not sterilizable
Wire may be a weak point
Loud
Click here for the full review
Sunday, 11 March 2012
Review: Magic Silk Demi-Bra and Hot Pants
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I'm thrilled with this outfit. It's kinky, fun, and well made. My favourite part is the bra - I love the way it supports and displays my breasts. The shorts are more comfortable than I expected, and actually fit my big bottom, however snugly. The only con is trying to work out the sizing, since the chart doesn't clearly identify the LXL and Plus sizes that are being sold on Eden. I'm pleased with my first experience with Magic Silk, and I expect to collect more of their pieces in time.
Pros:
Great look
Comfortable
Value for money
Cons:
Strange sizing
Click here for the full review
Verdict: 5 out of 5 stars
Thursday, 8 March 2012
UK Giveaway Roundup: Week of March 5, 2012
Here are all the giveaways I know about that, to the best of my knowledge, are open to UK residents. This post will be updated throughout the week as I learn of more, and a new post put up next Monday.
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
- Win Bedroom Kandi products at Eden Cafe - Contest ends Mar 11
- Win a red leather spanking paddle at Spanking.co.uk - Contest ends Mar 18
- Win a Custom Jollet or Jollie Dildo from Hey Epiphora - Contest ends Mar 22
- Win a Springtime Sex Toy bundle from Nymphomaniac Ness - Contest ends Mar 22
- Win a Lelo Tor II Cockring from Screaming Violet - Contest ends Mar 24
- Win a $25 Eden Gift Card from Steve and Roxy - Contest ends Mar 29
- Win a share of £200 worth of sex toys from Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman - Contest ends Mar 31
- Win a Kindle and £100 to spend at Lovehoney - Contest ends Apr 30
Is it worth it entering these competitions? YES! Click here to see all the prizes I won in 2011 and to learn more about how sex toy competitions work.
If you'd like your contest listed in the Roundup, just email me or comment and let me know. It must be open to UK residents to qualify.
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